Duokai, a.k.a. Johan ([info]duokai) wrote,
@ 2008-06-05 23:15:00
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Summer in the city thoughts
When forced to label it, I have always described my style of dressing as "casual". But after spending some time in the city and for once actually looking at people, I'm not so sure if casual is the right description for me. At least not when looking at my countrymen dressed for summer.

I know, I have this weird idea - in Swedish eyes at least - of wearing jeans or other long pants (especially if I'm in a city environment) in temperatures when most locals have switched to shorts and T-shirts long ago. But even so I was still somewhat surprised to see the very casual casual style people use now. And for most, that means very casual as in sloppy and not as in stylish casual. (And now I start to sound like I actually have a fashion sense, which feels very weird I can assure you.)

And apparently fate wanted to really drive the point through. One hour after I had made this observation I met up with my niece and my mother, and while sitting at a café eating icecream the nine-year-old asked me: "why are you wearing long trousers? And those shoes? Isn't it warm?" Point taken. And maybe it's the wrong reaction, but somehow I can't help but feel amused and rather pleased. I wonder if the label "snobbish casual" exist...




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[info]schrogwr2
2008-06-05 11:20 pm UTC (link)
Your style is "Johan". ;)

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[info]duokai
2008-06-06 05:39 pm UTC (link)
Good point! :D

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[info]spherehunter
2008-06-06 06:55 pm UTC (link)
Actually, I always used to wear very much clothes, even in the summer. People have even asked "why do you always wear so much?". I used to wear long trousers and long-sleeved shirts, hell even knitted sweaters and stuff.

This summer I have been wearing mostly tight (!) T-shirts and short skirts - and I've come to realize the only reason I actually dressed like I did before was because I felt "fat" and a had a poor body image, I was basically just trying to hide it all with big, baggy and thick clothes.

I feel a lot better now since I'm not that ashamed of my body after losing weight, but what's even better is that it's not so damn HOT to go outside anymore. ^^

Sooo my point with all this was as long as you really DO feel comfortable yourself, wear whatever you like. It doesn't matter what the "standard" is or what other people might conceive as strange. In the end, the only one you can dress as is yourself.

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[info]duokai
2008-06-06 07:50 pm UTC (link)
Well, I can't for the love of my life blame it on feeling fat (more the opposite in that case, but I doubt it. Hairy legs complex maybe? But then, I'm male, so it shouldn't be that much of a complex either ^^), so I suppose it's nothing but a "feeling good this way" thing. And I do wear shorts sometimes (like today), but then it's more of relaxing/vacation/country thing. For cities, uni and the likes it feels... weird to go that way. But short sleeves and T-shirts are a preferred summer accessory, so I'm not that hopeless. ^^

Would it sound sexist much to approve of your tight T-shirts and short skirts dress style? ^^ It sounds like some of the better examples of good female summer dress I've observed after all.

(For some reason this also reminds me: I will post more photo comment spam, so don't you worry. Or do worry. ^^ Just need the time to write something good and (in)coherent enough. Preferably without melting in front of my computer.)

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[info]spherehunter
2008-06-07 09:04 am UTC (link)
Hairy legs is never a problem unless it's extreme ^^ I don't think I would react much to people wearing long trousers during summer, I'd think it was more strange if people wore long-sleeved shirts in thick fabrics actually, and since you don't, you're 100% OK :)

Not sexist, I am trying to be "attractive" so it's good to know men (ONE MAN!) appreciates it. I won't be young forever, best to show it off, haha.

Don't worry about it (eh). I know that feeling of wanting to write awesome comments of awesome posts (as if ^^;;) but just feeling inadequate and not being able to write anything. And then time passes... Just grab an icecream and do it! ^^

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